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… to the most asked sex toy questions!

The research doesn’t lie: women are more likely to orgasm with a sex toy than intercourse alone. Sex toys are becoming more widely excepted and we couldn’t be more thrilled. So let’s help you put your burning questions to rest.

Can I become addicted to toys?

No. You may prefer them over other things, but the toys themselves are not “addicting.” One way to ensure your clit doesn’t become used to being stimulated by a vibrator, switch things up. Invest in a toy box with lots of options. If you get a little numb down there, just take a break. Kind of like when you sit on your leg for too long, you need to get up and walk around to regain feeling. Just shake it off!

Can I use this with a partner?

Most sex toys are made to use with a partner or alone. Always communicate with your partner before introducing a new sex toy into the relationship. Sex toys can bring excitement. Get creative … you don’t have to have a clitoris to enjoy a vibrator or a penis to get excited about a cock ring. And for the record, anal plugs are not just for gay men!

What type is right for me?

There is no black and white answer. Start slow and small. Experiment and don’t be afraid to try things you don’t think you would like. Start with a clitoral vibe with multiple vibration speeds and work your way up. Remember the tortoise always wins the race.

How do I turn it off?

Most vibrating toys can be turned off by holding the button down for three seconds. Read the manual for instructions before use. The button can be a little hidden so practice turning it on and off before you take it for its first test drive. The last thing you want is for your toddler to walk in and you are fumbling to turn off “mommy’s toy.”

How loud is a vibrator?

It depends on the type of vibrator. If you are purchasing in the store, ask the sales associate for advice. If you are purchasing online, look for a description. And if you end up with a louder vibrator, consider covering yourself with a heavier blanket and turn on a fan or music. Typically the less expensive it is the louder it is. As the price drops the more your roommates will know what you are up to at night!!!

Does this come in different colors and sizes?

Most toys come in a variety of different colors and sizes. Pick the one you are most comfortable with! Also, consider the texture and material it is made out of. Think of toys like men, there are million fish in the sea and sometimes you need to go through a few before you land the big one.

How do I clean my toys?

It is SOOO important to clean your toys properly. For not only the longevity of your toy but also the bacteria you could be putting into your body. The minimum should be a mild antibacterial soap with warm/hot water. There are a lot of cleaners on the market, but be careful of cheap ones. Some of the fragrance ones can cause irritation if you have sensitive skin. Be sure to rinse it with warm water after using any cleaner. Scrub-a-dub-dub, clean after your rub.

The market for sex toys is still relatively young so don’t be shy if you have questions. There is a lot of uncertainty, so don’t be afraid to use google, store associates, friends, and reviews when you have questions about toys. And last but not least, always feel free to contact us if you have any questions. We are happy to help ensure you find the right toy for your needs.